I have a really embarrassing problem in my marriage and it is something that I do not necessarily feel like I want to talk to family and friends about because I take it really personally. Basically I am in a sexless marriage and it has been that way for about the last 2 years. I have tried to get him to talk about it and there is not much good that comes from that suggesting. What can I do to have him open up about why he is feeling this way? Or better yet, what can I do to get the romance back?